Was this controlling and abusive  of bf?

So I live with bf

We had an say outing planned for his work friends Birthday to go to hunter valley for wine tour. 

Everyone was meeting In the city to go by a chauffeured mini bus which we payed about $60 each.

So The morning of and the wake up was 5.30am. I was looking very forward to going but I had a very Stressful and busy week at work and was extremely exhausted  when I woke and didn’t feel up to going. I told my bf this and he got angry and said ‘you HAVE to come’ not showing any sign of empathy towards me(didn’t care how

I felt)  Basically made me

Go. Is this

Abusive ? 

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