Can I have some advice, please?

I’m a 21 year old girl and I have been seeing this 28 year old guy. The thing is, he has a Masters degree, is a special education teacher, and is a complete gentleman. I, on the other hand, only have a high school diploma and work as an assistant manager at Justice in a mall. He treats me like a queen. We were talking one day and he said he had always wanted to get his ears pierced because he has never done anything “wild” like that in his life and always admired people who had piercings and tattoos. I talked him info letting me pierce his ears at the store one day. Oh my gosh. When he got them done and seen them in the mirror for the first time, he had the biggest smile ever and his face was as red as a tomato. He absolutely loved them! Well, today, he told me that I am the most amazing girl he has ever known and having pierced ears is the first time in his life he has ever felt “attractive.” Do you think this guy is boyfriend material? 

5 Answers

  • Tj
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    He would be mine.

  • 2 months ago

    Treats you like a queen and recognizes you for you and not your education level. Sounds like husband material!

  • 2 months ago

    Once on a first date, I took my girl to a Cuban restaurant in St. Augustine, FL. During the meal, she lamented lacking a college degree. We went to the Old Schoolhouse and I bought her a Master's degree. We continued to see each other, and I fell head over heels in love. I have an advanced degree and have worked as a professional all of my post-college life. We recently celebrated our 27th wedding anniversary. I would suggest that academic achievement should not be factor in a relationship. If there's chemistry, empathy, communications and mutual attraction, wealth, education and family history shouldn't be factored in. There is a thing about social status self-identification that can be a blessing or a problem in some relationships. Thankfully, I married a true Southern Lady.

  • 2 months ago

    do not feed troll with tatoo and piercing fetish creep

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