Is it still unrequited love if you keep thinking about someone but didnt want to date them?
I used to really like this guy but i never wanted to date him because i thought he really loved himself. I also didnt like the fact that he wasnt working and i would most likely end up having to pay for everything if we did date. However I was really attracted to him physically and we used to see each other a lot and smile and wave at each other and chat sometimes but it was awkward for me as i liked him so much.
The thing is this was a few years ago since we communicated and seen each other. I stopped talking to him or even saying hi and he got upset about that. But at that stage he had a gf anyway.
I still havnt moved on in the sense that i think about him every single day. I know we wouldnt have been a good match and he never asked me out anyway.
So what do you call this? Is it an obsession or what is it?
I cant meet anyone else since its a lockdown but its rare i go out anyway so not much chance of me meeting anyone.
- FireplaceLv 62 months agoFavorite Answer
It's whatever you want to call it.
It's "unrequited love" if you love him and he does not love you back.