Turing 30 in a couple months and I'm still a virgin(male). Should I be proud?
- PaulLv 73 months ago
Proud? For simply doing what God has commanded us to do?
- momLv 73 months ago
you should be proud that you are still a virgin. wait until you get married
- righteousjohnsonLv 73 months ago
Don't worry...it's curable.
- WOOWHOLv 73 months ago
VIRGINITY is NOT a RELIGION nor SPIRITUALITY category ERROR
it is a word that identifies the state of human beings or animals never having sexual relations which deals with the NATURAL world
SHOULD : used to indicate OBLIGATION, DUTY , correctness typically when criticizing someones actions........... I am NOT Criticizing your actions
PROUD : ( adjective ) feeling deep pleasure or SATISFACTION as a result of ones own achievements I can not KNOW what one FEELS only if one expresses it or some body actions are observed its not a case of SHOULD but of a individuals human personality characteristics or traits the inability to experience pride is labeled APATHY in psychology PRIDE is SHAME driven over confidence and ARROGANCE pushes others away instead of treating others as EQUALS PRIDE is often driven by poor self worth and shame , to compensate self arouse feelings of being SUPERIOR
from DEDUCTION a person could rightfully conclude 8 POSSIBILITIES
1- the questioner VALUES the status of "VIRGIN"
Values are Beliefs that something or a behavior is good and worth while
otherwise, would NOT maintain such a status
2- has not yet reached PUBERTY or sexual maturity or has a hormonal imbalance called loss of LIBIDO
3-is economically impaired lacking the Price of a SEX WORKER or impaired in forming a sexual relationship with another person
4 - presenting FALSE information
5- is lacking in some aspect of EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
6- DIRECTED by some BELIEF self formed or promoted by others or social organization authoritatively and adopted such as a doctrine
7- incarcerated and in solitary confinement for example perhaps death row
8- resides on a Island or area of the world with a population of 1 person
just thought of another possibility
9- a EUNICH a man who has had his sex organs removed aka CASTRATION
unlike THEIST CREATIONIST people do have the ability coming up with many possibilities of causation as my 9 possibilities illustrate the next process is investigation and test ability to discover which ACTUALLY apply in logic talk a premise or theory aka deductive reasoning
the information provided may clear up peoples possible confusion or mis- information
Thank you for the question
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- River EuphratesLv 73 months ago
If you had opportunities to lose your virginity, and turned them down because you were 'saving yourself for marriage', then I guess it could be considered 'admirable'.
On the other hand, if you were never able to find a willing partner, even while actively attempting to find one, then it would just be a little sad.
- 3 months ago
Hmmm... but are your ears still a virgin?
- Anonymous3 months ago
No, mate, you're probably ugly as sin.
- Hannah J PaulLv 73 months ago
Since you are asking this in religion and spirituality, I think I can safely assume you are concerned about it from a spiritual perspective.
Yes, you should be proud. You are single but you have not engaged in sexual immorality.
Spiritually speaking, let us hope you do not cave in to peer pressure from those who would ridicule you for having control over your body. Think about it this way: men do not have a problem with women being virgins do they. They like to get a virgin. And they like to marry one. But they ridicule a man for the same self-control and chastity. What do we suppose is wrong with that picture?
Hannah J Paul
- 3 months ago
sex is good, but it's overrated too man. no worries. being proud is up to you. i mean if its a goal then yeah. if you want to have sex, then meh. but you're 30 and still young. so go have at it. if you want to of course. or get those nice dolls they make for 2 grand. yeah she cant cook for you, but hey she also won't complain about dumb stuff to yah 😂👌🤘
EDIT: ignore the crazy religious people lol they down thumbs everyone in this question thread. trust me, religious people suck and f**k saturday night, then go to church sunday morning like nothing happened. they're leing if they say otherwise. that's right you punks DOWN THUMBS ME I tell the truth and you know it! 😂😂👌🤘✊
- Anonymous3 months ago
Assuming you've done it for the Lord, give him the glory.