I have a crush on my church minister..should I move churches?

Question

It’s a small, harmless crush.  He’s an attractive and charismatic older man but he’s older, he’s my minister and he’s got a family.  There’s already a man I’m long distance dating who I have real feelings for that isn’t a crush.  It’s the sort of crush where you don’t have any interest or intention on acting on it-you just admire them from afar.  

Answer 1

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Crushes on a married preacher are not "harmless" in Gods eyes, and he is your Judge. Do whatever it takes to remedy the situation. Your soul is in dire jeopardy. 

Answer 2

No. Move on to a harmful crush.