Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 1 month ago

Why do women prefer guys who treat them like trash and don't like a guy who treats them well?

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  • Sherry
    Lv 7
    1 month ago
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    It's a sickness in SOME women. They gravitate to assholes like dear old Dad. They want to win in the end and finally please him. Remember that. It's not only the women you abuse that are damaged.

  • Alesha
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    That's only a certain type of woman. Those are the ones you hear about it in the tabloids and on the boob tube. They rarely talk about decent, nurturing relationships because they are boring to most people. Personally I like nice guys period.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    They generally don't like men who don't like women. That's probably why they don't want to get with you, contemptuous anon.

  • 1 month ago

    The majority of confident women, wouldn't tolerate a man that treated them like trash. Usually the women that are attracted to 'bad boys' are mentally scarred and have a lack of self esteem or may believe they deserve to be treated badly, possibly due to a traumatic childhood.  

    Also many women have the 'false' belief that they have the right to change their man, into the 'perfect' man - in their own eyes.  So will continue to put up with his bad behaviour, hoping that she'll be the one to 'tame' him!

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Those are mentally ill conservative women 

  • 1 month ago

    I know this to be 100% true. Age 16-18 I was a good natured, kind, slightly naive guy who had his life in order, good attitude, everything going for him and cared more about himself than others, he got repeatedly played, friendzoned and when he did secure a relationship, give it 6 months he was cheated on, left for other guys before coming back to me having changed her mind, it’s the way it works. All girls have these “choose the bad guy over the good guy” phase. 

    I’m in my early 20s now and since 18 I’ve took a dark path where I had issues, did stupid, dangerous things, used drugs, was violent and nearly got thrown out of university twice. He was way more successful. Obtained what he wanted quicker, approached first, saying they fell for him, longer relationships and not messed around. Now I am better again, I notice I’m slowly getting treated like crap...again🤷🏼‍♂️. 

  • User
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Most women get over the "treat me like trash" guys at a pretty early age

    usually before the age of 25.

    Some never do, but they are the exception.

  • 1 month ago

    I look around being the age i am. And i see alot of mean people. So its hard sometimes to find someone nice and relationship wise a good partner. Both men and women are equally not good, in my opinion.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Women prefer guys with huge bank accounts.

  • Isabel
    Lv 4
    1 month ago

    I do not accept your premise

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