Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 month ago

Is he playing games? How do I respond?

My ex boyfriend couldn’t let go after the relationship. He kept saying he’s not giving up on us, texting and calling... I still love him so I agreed to mend the relationship but take things slow. I asked to see him last week, he said he has plans. I asked this week on Saturday morning, he said he will let me know but after 3 days I had not heard from him, so Friday night I texted asking what’s the go for tomorrow. At 11pm He said that he is going to his friends house but also doesn’t feel like he’s ready to face me, knowing that things may not work out between us. I responded “please stop playing games with me, only contact me if/when you want to try and fix things” he said “I’m not playing games, if you can’t wait until I’m ready then I’ll have to live with that. I’m very surprised by your reaction”

3 Answers

  • 1 month ago

    You respond by saying "Good bye, and good luck. Please don't contact me anymore".

  • Alan H
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Cut contact unless he moves first 

    Why waste your time? 

  • L.F.
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    It sounds as if he finally let go, you should be glad of that.

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