Anonymous asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 3 weeks ago

Why is a guy at work whos older than me making rude judgemental comments i never asked for?

He makes comments that can be taken in multiple ways. So it could be seen as a compliment or an insult but he doesnt elaborate on his comments.

Also nobdy asked his opinion of me. Why he keeps giving it is annoying.

2 Answers

  • 3 weeks ago
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    Okay, then tell him nobody asked for his f*cking opinion.

  • 3 weeks ago

    Sorry to break it to you, but everyone you know does the same thing.  Maybe you don't hear them, but everyone judges everyone else (you included).  But some people do this sort of thing as sort of an office politics thing.  His judgement of you is claiming he is higher in the pecking order than you.  Not claiming to be your boss, but claiming to be more important than you.  Sort of like how middle and high school kids act around each other at school.  Basic immaturity and insecurity on his part.

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