Freezing up can't poop while others are near or in the bathroom what is going on ??
My girlfriend thinks it is weird that I can't poop in the bathroom while she standing at the door speaking to me or she is in there. I have explained to me the bathroom is private thing I don't care if we are boyfriend, girlfriend, brothers, sisters, married etc. She asked me why and if I was ever abuse sexually as a child. I have told her no several times, I just can't do it. If we are out in public I always look for bathroom where one person at a time uses it for that very reason. I can make myself urinate which is the off thing but poop forget about it I close up and can't do it.
- ron hLv 74 weeks ago
I feel exactly like you. I can piss out doors or use a trough urinal. I don't care who's close by or could see me. But a dump? No. You're not the only one. Tell her that even in public bathrooms with trough urinals, the toilets have stalls. This is not YOUR problem. She needs to respect that you need a couple of minutes of privacy. When I suspect that my wife is taking a poo, I go to another part of the house b/c that's what I want when I'm doing it.
- Max HooplaLv 74 weeks ago
We are sorry you can't poop in a group.
- MarcLv 74 weeks ago
There are some core principles when it comes to relationships. One of them is to stay in your lane. You have a thing about this and its your thing. Its not good or bad. And its really none of her business. You have made a request and its not being respected. You have a chice. Live with it and love it, Live with it and hate it or leave it. She is not staying in her lane. Simple
- TavyLv 74 weeks ago
It's not weird it's normal. It's your girlfriend who's weird, no one stands in the bathroom while someone is having a poo or a pee.
Shut the door and lock it.