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Anonymous asked in HealthWomen's Health · 2 months ago

What should I do? I've never reached an orgasm.?

Although I have practiced masturbating early (12) I never come to an orgasm. I'm now 20 y.o.

Idk what to think, I'm different from other girls, or just is about my mindset. More specific I lost my virginity at 19 and my boyfriend says to me that there are girls that cannot reach orgasm at all. I don't believe this, I don't know, but I'm freaking out from inside because of this.

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  • L
    Lv 5
    1 month ago

    Your boyfriend is an idiot.  Girls do have orgasms............the problem is - boys/men just get in too much of a hurry, have their orgasm and want to stop.

  • 1 month ago

    The feelings during masturbation are different than having sex with someone. I have found that women who haven't climaxed haven't had their partner play with them long enough. I love oral sex and can do it for a long time on women. They all ***. Whether they have had an orgasm before or not. Time is your friend. 

  • 2 months ago

    It is true for some women, however there are many different forms of sex to achieve different forms of pleasure. Try vibrators, anal, whatever you're comfortable trying could help

  • ?
    Lv 6
    2 months ago

    You haven't had the right person stimulating you. 

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    Orgasms can be reached in different ways for different women easier in some than others.  Even some women can achieve it doing anal sex easier than vaginal sex. Some have to definitely have the clitoris swollen first. Most definitely need their g-spot stimulated a lot and rapidly. Not all women are alike.

  • 2 months ago

    Don’t feel bad. Many women have the same issue. But think of it another way—if you did feel orgasm, then you might be addicted to sex like so many men are, instead of having sex for the right reasons—baby making with a committed partner. There are plenty of other pleasurable things in life. You don’t need to get pleasure out of sex. 

  • 2 months ago

    stimulate your clitoris

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    You should go see a doctor

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    There ARE women who can't climax, but it's not common.  And those that can't fall into 2 categories; those who have a physical problem, such as an injury causing nerve damage, and those who have psychologically based sexual dysfunction.

    Much more commonly, though, there are lots of women who have a difficult time learning how to reach orgasm and especially have a difficult time from coitus alone.

    My advice is to invest in a quality vibrator and keep trying with or without a partner.  And remember, the biggest sex organ in your body isn't between your legs.  It's between your ears.  You have to be turned on emotionally, to get there physically.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    No it's not true that some women don't reach orgasm, Everyone women need proper stimulation, Intercourse with proper duration. You might need some stimulation and intercourse for long like 30 minutes or more to reach orgasm but you definitely can reach one. If your boyfriend reaches his orgasm too soon try the start stop method tell your boyfriend to withdraw his penis from your vagina and wait till his penis is flaccid again till then tell him to give you oral or stimulation with hands. And you'll be happy.. HAPPY ORGASM AND INTERCOURSE TO YOU:)

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