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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 month ago

Why are women so hellbent on getting childsupport?

Its her body her choice to keep it.Not his fault. Its a poor excuse to rob a man for 100 bucks every month.

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    It took two, using unprotected sex, to create the child.  Therefore it is 50% his fault.  $100 a month doesn't even begin to cover the expenses for a child, with medical, food, and clothing costs.  Quit whining.

  • 1 month ago

    blame the system the put out that dangling carrot of child support to any women with the temptation to destroy their bored marriage. 

    and at that, every women now knows they can prostitute themselves for kids to any man to take any and all of his money any time they want. for that kind of woman they are a whore. they dont care who they boink cuz they know in the end its for the money. how different is that from being a whore? hollywood and sports is full of them. the only dif is they have bigger mammary glands. 

    if you boinked a chick and she got pregs with your kid cuz you just lusted after her bod, dont you kinda deserve to suffer this way anyways?

    still, its a family court system's fault, they love this, you pay to get your kid back or equal custody but they stick it to you and dont let you see your kid ever but make you pay her to raise the clump of cells. 

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Where do you live that $100 ("bucks") a month supports a child?  Probably for the same reason MEN are hellbent on getting child support (which, by the way, is two words).  They need to money to support the child.  Don't men realize that they can save $100 a month (in your specific case) by wearing a $2.99 condom?

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    it sucks but it is reality and as said ,,,,, you will not be the one who fixes it 

    good luck with the $100.00 ... 

    that number is a fallacy - figure 1/3 of you gross income at least 

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    it is a career choice she has made , less work all the support of society and your money while you are the bad guy all the way - all problems blames on you -- no her life will not be great or perfect but it is a choice she decided on and once she is buried in bad life chosen  the only answer is more of your money 

    everyone is telling her to take your money

    there is no stopping it ,, once the child is born and she wants you to give her what she feels is her rights 

    choices,,, first get a vasectomy never trust a women for birth control ever again 

    second see the child let her bully you control you and deem all you do is the reason the child has problems OR 

    pay her monthly and never ever see the child never talk to the mother and never let this be a conversation with anyone 

    there is another choice ,,,, disappear live underground never have any legitimate home or credit or life, not even drive legal (no drivers license allowed) do work you can be paid cash like be a employee of e illegal alien gardener  - while this sounds harsh,,, many people do it,,, but it needs to be done 100% all the way or not at all 

    the entire welfare child support and medical clinics government housing are based on this government program to blame the man for her choices - job security for government agencies that should  not even exist. 

    you will not change this any more than the many who went before you

    suck it up hire a lawyer , once ordered never miss a payment ,, keep impeccable records and receipts - never pay cash- ever  -- never trust anyone from the government on this matter ,, none are there to help you and many are there to trick and cheat you -- count the days till the child is 18 years of age and move on with life -- they will accuse you of not making payments and if you do not have proof you will pay it again 

  • Kay
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    Because babies are expensive.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    It's also "his body his choice" when he decides to not wear a condom. 

  • 1 month ago

    A hundred bucks? You're either kidding or living in the dark ages.  

    Meanwhile, THE LAW states that biological parents bear a financial responsibility to their children.  It's just the way it is.  

    Apparently, you've never had, nor raised a child before and you have no clue of the expense.

    Maybe keep it in your pants if this is such a huge worry?

  • n2mama
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Nope, his fault was having unprotected sex with a partner who also wasn’t being reproductively responsible. If he didn’t want to be a father, he should have taken steps to prevent the conception. He didn’t, and now he’s upset about paying $1200/year to support his child? That doesn’t cover diapers for the first year, much less housing, feeding, clothing, doctor visits, anything. He must have a crappy job and not even work full time, or have like five other kids for a support order to be that low.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    It took two, using unprotected sex, to create the child.  Therefore it is 50% his fault.  $100 a month doesn't even begin to cover the expenses for a child, with medical, food, and clothing costs.  Quit whining.

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