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Des asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 month ago

Is he playing me for a fool?

My baby's father has been cheating on me with his 1st baby mom for 2 years now and he's making me babysit their child while Im PREGNANT! I have my own kids to watch. A year ago, He wasn't taken me to work either. I had to ask my family to take me to BOTH of my job's while he's borrowing my truck. Now i'm pregnant again catching the bus to work. 😤sometimes he would take me and other times I would ask my sister. He had me driving 2 hours to the casino too to gamble smh Every time he gets paid, he would spend money on himself or his son and I would spend MY money on our daughter, My unborn, and his son. 😒When I'm in need i have to ask my family to babysit for me or I'll ask them for some money for our Kids which he would spend it on Marijuana or gas to work. Most likely, im the one paying majority of The bills..😤which makes me feel like complete crap because we're living together too.😪most times he sleeps at his sister house or probably with other women since I seen him on video with them.  😑😞

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  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    sounds like it and i wouldnt live with someone like that

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Yes, he is, and you are letting him. 

  • 1 month ago

    First off STOP paying for his son, and you should also seriously consider leaving him, cause he is really just using you.  You already know this, but somehow feel the need to "have" a man in your life.  Just kick him out since you are paying most of the bills anyways.  

  • 1 month ago

    It sounds, from your description, that he is taking advantage of you. If he asks you to babysit HIS children, just say NO. Learn to set limits about what you are willing to do and what you are not willing to do. Those limits have to be clear in your mind. 

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